Nurse-in at Facebook’s Annual Meeting of Stockholders 2013

The nurse-in at Facebook’s Annual Meeting of Stockholders in Millbrae, California was a success. Not in that Facebook is actually going to start following their own rules, but in that over a thirty mothers, babies, and supporters came out to support breastfeeding. The tally at one point was 15 mothers and 21 children plus supporters. The event organizers were myself, Heather Moore-Farley, Samsarah Morgan, Jodine Chase, and Sarah Rockwell, though Sarah and Jodine were unable to make it.

I hope that the shareholders could see us from their window. They had a security detail guarding their buses near the exit but I didn’t see them leave. It was also nice to run into Breastfeeding USA‘s president, Patty Jacobs, for a moment as I was heading out.

Below are a few photos and a video I took at the nurse-in this morning.

Video: Organizer Heather Moore-Farley’s interview with the news.

Photos:

Gathered in front of the Westin hotel in Millbrae, California, where Facebook’s stockholders were having their annual meeting.

Photo from organizer Samsarah Morgan.

Babies as young as 7 weeks old showed up to drink a little milk to support breastfeeding on Facebook.

Anya Matkowski’s children. The onesie says, “Stick around for the show, I nurse in public.”Heather Moore-Farley and her friend Jena Vincent. Some ladies drove an hour or more to attend or even took BART.

Getting some media attention.

The Happy Hippie Homemaker, Xela, and her daughters with a sign: “Facebook: Hands off our memories!”

Myself and my two daughters, tandeming at the nurse-in. Two breasts, two babies! They were much smaller when they were tandem nursing at last year’s Facebook nurse-in.
My girls, 21 months and 3 1/2 years old, holding up signs for the cars passing by. “Babies like breastfeeding.” & “Dear Facebook, Babies drink milk. Mothers’ breasts make milk. Babies drink milk from mothers’ breasts. Deal with it!”Honk if you support breastfeeding!Jinny Pagle nursing her daughter.There was lots of love at the event. Jinny gives organizer Samsarah Morgan a hug.
Love these signs Heather Moore-Farley’s daughter made to support breastfeeding on Facebook. “Be nice to mommies and babies.” & “Do not take down our photos.”

As you can see, it was a wonderful gathering. There are even more photos posted to the Facebook event page and countless breastfeeding support pages. It’s a shame that Facebook still has me banned from posting on pages that are a part of my normal activity, relating to breastfeeding and nursing events. I cannot even post a comment on a photo of myself on a public page without being told that isn’t allowed. All I can do to communicate is “like” it and hope the other person knows I appreciate their photos, thoughts, or for sharing my posters.

What is the follow up going to be to this nurse-in? When will Facebook be held accountable? These are questions that we are trying to answer, as this problem has been going on since mothers first turned to Facebook to share their memories and lovely nursing moments nearly ten years ago. We would like Facebook to keep their promise, that they will not take down nursing photos. It is only a matter of time.

Did you attend the event today, in person or virtually? Have you had a nursing photo banned from Facebook?

 

News

The nurse-in made the news in China, though most of the video was focused on the Keystone pipeline protest.

Facebook under fire at stockholders’ meeting – China.org

“Outside the stockholder’s meeting, these women express their displeasure over Facebook removing from their personal pages, photos of them breastfeeding.”

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Nurse-In at Facebook’s Annual Meeting of Stockholders: Be there!

There is a big nurse-in coming up. Have you heard? There will also be other groups protesting other things that morning, like the XL Pipeline, but if you’re a nursing mother or supporter, we want you there! Facebook is consistently inconsistent in their group and picture removal of breastfeeding mothers and babies, despite having rules saying they specifically welcome them. I also had a picture removed this year that follows the Community Standards from my page.

Please share this poster [Facebook | Pinterest] even if you cannot attend. There is a virtual nurse-in poster to share as well.

Facebook Nurse-in June 11th, 2013 at 10:30AM at The Westin San Francisco Airport, 1 Old Bayshore Highway, Millbrae, California 94030.

From the event organizers:

Nursing mothers and their allies will join with other activists to make sure that Facebook hears their voice!

STOP REMOVING PICTURES OF BREASTFEEDING FROM OUR FACEBOOK ACCOUNTS!

STOP PROMOTING VIOLENCE TOWARDS WOMEN BY ALLOWING VIOLENT IMAGES TO REMAIN POSTED UNCHALLENGED!

We will gather peacefully yet powerfully at the date and time below!

Calling all Mothers, Parents, Birthworkers, Educators! Lets remind Facebook that they are part of the human family!

Breastfeeding is normal, natural and part of daily life.

Violence against women, Violence against People and our planet will not be tolerated!

It will be our honor to demonstrate along with the activists you are protesting Mark Zukerberg’s financial support and promotion of the Keystone XL Pipeline!

Future generations deserve clean air, water and an alive planet!

See you there!

Join the Facebook event page for full details: https://www.facebook.com/events/371174449651436/

If you cannot attend, please make a nursing photo or a breastfeeding symbol your profile photo on June 11th to breastfeed in solidarity. Join the virtual nurse-in event page. Sign the petition to get Facebook to amend their breastfeeding guidelines.

Have you had a breastfeeding photo censored? Will you be attending? I know where I will be with my babies on June 11th. Be there!

Posters for sharing/making your profile photo:

**UPDATE**

The media has been contacted. This is the press release, written by yours truly:

Press Release

San Francisco, June 07, 2013: Nurse-in to be held at Facebook’s Annual Meeting of Stockholders at the Westin San Francisco Airport hotel in Millbrae, California;
Worldwide virtual protest to call on Facebook to leave breastfeeding photos alone and to allow educators to place breastfeeding ads.

- Daily image deletions and account suspensions continue.
- Facebook blocks event organizers from sharing breastfeeding photos, event information, and posters.
- Protests planned at Facebook’s stockholder meeting in front of the Westin San Francisco Airport and virtually around the globe.

The Facebook v. breastfeeding dispute rages on with Bay Area moms planning another major protest at Facebook’s Annual Meeting of Stockholders at the Westin hotel in Millbrae, California June 11th. The local nurse-in will be supported globally with thousands of influential mothers sharing their own breastfeeding photos for the virtual nurse-in. Tuesday’s nurse-in is a continuation of years of protesting the media giant’s relentless shaming of breastfeeding mothers and now denial of breastfeeding advertisements.

Last year, women, babies, and breastfeeding supporters at Facebook locations across the globe, including at Facebook’s Menlo Park Headquarters, protested Facebook’s removal of 257,000 supporters from the “Hey Facebook! Breastfeeding is Not Obscene” official petition group, which has been active since 2007, and the daily harassment and banishment of breastfeeding mothers. It is true that Facebook has a written policy which clearly states they support the sharing of breastfeeding images, yet, according to Emma Kwasnica, event lead from last year’s protest, they say they cannot control the actions of their employees who keep removing breastfeeding images and who block accounts of the users who post them – usually “in error.”
Earlier this week Facebook suspended normal account activity for 30 days for organizer Paala Secor for sharing the nurse-in event notice and posters on breastfeeding support pages after banning her for 60 days for sharing the news of another nurse-in. Countless “acceptable” breastfeeding photos have been deleted even though they do not break the no-nudity rules, like organizer Heather Farley’s tandem nursing photo deleted last week. Account bans leave mothers feeling denigrated and isolated from their virtual community, unable to share an integral part of their everyday lives and receive valuable mother-to-mother support. Jodine Chase, one of the event organizers from Canada, has been meticulously documenting the situation on her blog since January 2012. On it she shares images that have been deleted, screen snapshots showing the membership numbers in the official petition site before Facebook removed members, and more. Chase is personally serving a 30 day ban for sharing a photo of a child feeding the dolly, and was banned earlier this year for sharing a photo of a nursing mother.

In a statement to a member of Facebook’s public policy team today, Chase expressed her concerns:
“We know that Facebook welcomes breastfeeding photos. The problem is not so much the policy as it is the inability of Facebook to protect women who share breastfeeding photos that are acceptable according your policies. Recently some images were banned and someone from Facebook contacted the media and quoted an inaccurate, five-year-old Facebook policy in response to the deletions. Most recently Facebook has been rejecting advertisements with breastfeeding images. We think you need to take the extra step of assigning a team of staffers who can help deal with the problems the inadvertent deletions create for mothers and breastfeeding educators.”

Last year Facebook filed its IPO valuing the company at $104 billion, making it the largest U.S. company by market value. Facebook’s advertising revenue is estimated to grow to $5.6 billion this year, according to estimates from research firm EMarketer, and has already raked in $1.25 billion dollars in the first quarter of 2013 in ad sales. And yet, Facebook is harassing breastfeeding educators who want to place ads on the social network for breastfeeding consulting services, conferences for health educators, and educational videos, denying their ads. Breastfeeding ads, they claimed, will promote sexual exploitation, and will not be allowed, except for the ads placed in Italy by the formula giant, Nestlé, which feature breastfeeding babies.
Parents and supporters in the Bay-area and Silicon Valley are planning to show their unyielding commitment to the importance of breastfeeding’s place on the social network giant by attending a nurse-in at Facebook’s annual meeting of stockholders at the Westin Millbrae at 10:30 a.m., June 11th.

A virtual nurse-in is also planned worldwide on Facebook where mothers and supporters will be sharing nursing photos and the international breastfeeding symbol to show their support.

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Also, a member of the Facebook support team posted on the nurse-in event page:

Great, right? No. She left this and just didn’t respond to any of the valid points people asked her. Like, why are breastfeeding photos still being deleted and pages being banned without a single note or warning from Facebook, even if they don’t meet any of the nudity guidelines?

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Breastfeeding Mothers Unite Across Australia

Three major nurse-ins united breastfeeding moms across Australia last week. The first thing that crossed my mind when I heard about the upcoming nurse-ins was, “What the hell pissed off so many ladies?” And then I realized that yes, a mother being told to “refrain from feeding out in the open” at a pool coupled with David Koch’s comments about breastfeeding in public necessitating discretion would do it.

What are the laws in Australia regarding breastfeeding? Do they have varying protection that differs state-to-state like here in US? Nope. The Australian goverment has known how important breastfeeding is since the 80s. “Under the federal Sex Discrimination Act 1984 it is illegal in Australia to discriminate against a person either directly or indirectly on the grounds of breastfeeding.” And each state also offer additional breastfeeding laws and protection. Australian mothers have the right to nurse anywhere, anyplace.

The Bribie Island Aquatic Centre Nurse-in kicked off the trio of nurse-ins.

It was held to support Liana Webster, the mother in blue at the bottom right in the photo above. She was shamed by staff for nursing her child at a pool when she was told to “refrain from feeding out in the open.” No, she wasn’t asked to leave or move but it was certain insinuated. Big mistake.

There is nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with nursing a baby at a pool. The act of breastfeeding is not lewd and will not cause mass hysteria. It actually prevents a baby from being hysterical. The staff members at the pools here in the United States who have harassed mothers in the past have learned that breast milk should not be treated as a liquid that requires the pool to be evacuated and cleaned and mothers are to be left alone. This nurse-in was held on January 18th at 11am at the Bribie Island Aquatic Centre in Bribie, Queensland, Australia. News on the incidentVideo of the nurse-in on youtubeNews on the nurse-in. Event details: Main event page & 2nd nurse-in event page on Facebook. Liana’s support group for nurse-in moms.

The Sunrise Nurse-in was held on in front of Sunrise studios after TV presenter David Koch, nicknamed “Kochie,” said publicly on air that the Bribie Island mother should have moved to a more discreet area while breast feeding her baby. Mothers and supporters thought that Kochie’s actions, telling the world of his discriminatory view as if it was normal and right, thus shaming women into thinking that breastfeeding is immodest in and of itself, was unacceptable. First of all, the level of “discretion” is always up to the mother. Anyone else looking on has their own subjective views on modesty which can differ highly depending on the person’s upbringing, if they breastfed children themselves and their own level of comfort with public nursing, if close family members did, what their culture’s view on breasts and breastfeeding is, etc. Clearly, despite numerous attempts to apologize, Kochie’s view was that breastfeeding mothers should hide themselves from public view. Breastfeeding out in the open is not “classy.” The nurse-in was held on January 21st from 7am -10am at 52 Martin Place Sydney NSW.

News on the incident and nurse-in. Watch Breastfeeding mums vs Kochie on Youtube. Sunrise nurse-in details and photos on the event page on Facebook.

I personally love Heather Cushman Dowdee‘s take on Kochie’s not-so-classy cover-up. Here are two of her latest comics:

Comic 1 – Comic 2

The last but not least of the nurse-ins was the Perth CBD Nurse-in. According to the nurse-in’s event wall on Facebook, this event was held ”in response to Facebook’s removal of a photograph, taken by photographer Belle Verdiglione, of a mother breastfeeding her children. Ms Verdiglione was banned from Facebook for 24 hours for posting the photograph on her wall. The action was also held in solidarity with mothers who, the day before, held a “nurse-in” at the Sunrise Studio in Sydney’s CBD, in response to the breakfast program presenter David Koch’s comments on the show that breastfeeding mothers should be “discreet” and “modest” while breastfeeding in public.” The event was held on January 22 at 11am at Perth CBD, 200 / 204 Murray Street, Perth, Western Australia.

Belle Verdiglione Photography‘s photos from the Perth event:

Look at all those supportive mamas and babies!

And this is Belle nursing her child. Photo taken by Jasmine.

This is Belle’s photo that was banned from Facebook:

Frankly, looking at all of these mothers standing up for their rights and the rights of their children warms my heart. Seeing all of this support for families makes me wonder why anyone would take offense to the most natural thing in the world. Breastfeeding in public naysayers should feel lucky to witness such a admirable act of love and dedication.

Did you participate in one of these nurse-ins or the Facebook photo nurse-in last week? How does it make you feel when mothers are harassed, asked to be discreet, or banned from sharing photos on Facebook?

If Australia has had national law protecting women and babies since 1984, why can’t the United States finally adopt one? 

 

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Facebook Nurse-in February 29th – Interview with Jodine Chase

Check out this interview by Gena Kirby (who is going to the Georgia nurse-in March 6th!) talking to Jodine Chase, organizer of International Facebook Nurse-in earlier this month, about the Facebook v. breastfeeding nurse-in taking place in New York City today.

Progressive Parenting Radio’s Gena Kirby interviews Jodine Chase

On Wednesday, Feb. 29th, Facebook is hosting a gala event for high-powered Madison Avenue advertising and marketing execs in New York. Facebook Moms will be holding a protest. Facebook Moms are paying attention to you, Facebook advertisers. Are you paying attention to us?

More details at Jodine’s World:

Facebook Moms poised to flex their muscles, appealing to advertisers and proudly breastfeeding their children in public

 

Video of the Facebook Ireland Nurse-in

Listen to why nursing in public is important and the why Facebook is wrong for promoting a bottlefeeding culture by deleting breastfeeding photos, and for suspending and even deleting accounts because of them.

Ireland Facebook Nurse-in

Mothers protest over Facebook rules

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Who Screens Flagged Facebook Content? Not Who You’d Expect

Need a Facebook update? Take a look…

www.allfacebook.com

If you’ve ever wondered how Facebook has the resources to screen all of the content that users report as objectionable, here’s a hint: The contract workers who sift through the mountains of material aren’t exactly paid U.S. minimum wage.
What is your reaction to Facebook’s use of third-party, third-world contract workers at low rates of pay to screen its flagged content
And what do they look for? Take a look at this cheat sheet:
The only mention of breastfeeding mothers – Sex and Nudity #6… “Mothers breastfeeding without clothes on.” Why do normal photos of nursing mothers get flagged then??
Want more info on this topic?

Facebook’s nudity and violence guidelines are laid bare – www.guardian.co.uk

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Valentine’s Day plans? Post Breastfeeding Photos on Facebook!

I know most people are going to be thinking about flowers or chocolates tomorrow but there is also going to be a virtual nurse-in on Facebook tomorrow. I’ve written about it a few times, (read: Upcoming Nurse-Ins & Why they are a big deal), but I had to say it again. Show your support!

The Valentine’s Day Virtual Facebook Nurse-In is all day tomorrow – February 14th, 2012

Why? This is the virtual version of the nurse-ins that were held worldwide on February 6th, 2012. Read the news on the nurse-ins: Huffington Post (And yes, the main photo there is my photo!)

And if you’re raising your eyebrow, thinking “Why all the fuss? Who really cares? Who really wants to see nursing babies on Facebook anyway?” Read my post about it – Why SEEING breastfeeding is important & Emma Kwasnica’s challenge to you & My Personal Breastfeeding Journey.

Spread the love this Valentine’s Day – show your support and love for breastfeeding and send a message to Facebook that breastfeeding is not obscene! It’s normal and beautiful pictures of breastfeeding should be seen!

Despite a policy change, Facebook is continuing to target and harass women by removing their photos and suspending their accounts. There is a point at which Facebook will no longer be able to ignore the roar of so many voices lifted in unison. Please add your voice!

Many tireless women have put in tremendous effort to raise awareness – lets keep that momentum going and build on it! Share this event with as many people as you can, invite as many as you can, spread the word and spread the love!

Facebook event page: http://www.facebook.com/events/207830855976678/

HOW TO SHOW YOUR SUPPORT:
On Valentine’s Day,
1. Change your profile to a breastfeeding photo
2. Optionally upload as many breastfeeding photos as you can!
3. Alternately, please feel free to use the events logo as your profile picture (you can download it here: http://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/420125_2705317469056_1140356891_32096191_409292900_n.jpg).

PAGES TO SUPPORT:
Hey Facebook, breastfeeding is not obscene! (Official petition to Facebook)
Hey FB: Breastfeeding In Public Is FINE – Advertising Formula Is NOT!
If breastfeeding offends you, put a blanket over YOUR head!
FB! Stop harassing Emma Kwasnica over her breastfeeding pics
http://www.facebook.com/Unblock.Danelle.Frisbie
Human Milk 4 Human Babies Global Network
The Leaky Boob

IN THE NEWS:
http://jodinesworld.blogspot.co.nz/2012/01/facebook-harasses-moms-over.html
http://mothering.com/all-things-mothering/breastfeeding/press-release-facebook-continues-its-war-with-canadian-breastfeeding-activists
http://healthland.time.com/2011/05/03/extreme-modesty-facebook-and-breast-feeders-go-at-it-again/
http://www.facebook.com/notes/emma-kwasnica/why-seeing-breastfeeding-is-important-my-personal-challenge-to-you/436431689914

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